Tuesday, February 17, 2009

Nationwide protests put human face on gay marriage battle

Same-sex couples seeking to wed showed up at marriage license counters nationwide Thursday to highlight a right they don’t have in 48 states, part of an annual protest that took on renewed urgency given recent election setbacks.

In San Francisco, where same-sex marriage was legal for nearly five months last year before California voters approved a ban, many couples who came to City Hall had already tied the knot but wanted to express their gratitude and to show they’re still part of the fight.

“All of our marriages are under the cloud of Proposition 8,” said Stuart Gaffney, 45, referring to California’s ballot initiative banning gay marriage. “Equality is an unfinished business in California.”

In Las Vegas, couples gathered outside the downtown marriage bureau with signs that read “Don’t hate my love” and “No laws on love.” In New York, activists wore signs that said “Just Not Married.” They were turned away empty-handed in both places when they asked for marriage licenses.

“We could get married in Massachusetts or Connecticut, but we’ll wait a little and see what happens in New York,” Matt Flanders, 37, of Brooklyn, said after he and his partner, Will Jennings, 29, participated in the protest in Manhattan. “It’s a matter of principle. This is our home, and we should be able to get married where we live, where our friends are.”

The protests around Valentine’s Day, part of the 12th annual Freedom to Marry Day, were considered especially important this year because they come after the November passage of Proposition 8. The measure has prompted protests, lawsuits and questions about the direction of the gay rights movement.

“A lot of people feel a sense of determination and regret over having been too complacent or quiet before, so there is a commitment to, `Never again, we have to take action,’” said Evan Wolfson, a civil rights lawyer who conceived Freedom to Marry Day. “In that sense, California was a terrific energizer and wake-up call.”

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